We all have bad days and within these days is usually a gem of a gift waiting to be opened.
The challenges we face are one of life's primary features. In some instances, these challenges are hard to manage and thus appear to take forever to be resolved. In extreme cases, the terrible experiences and challenges are sequential, where one bad issue leads to another. In such times, we may wonder when the good days will be back. But one of the good things about a tough time is that it helps us discover the best in us and thus can be defined as a gift. The bad days may help us realize positive changes, make changes in our lives or at work, and count our blessings. In some instances, bad days lead us to face some key emotions and people we may have been avoiding. Bad days often help us to learn new things about ourselves and the situations we face.
A difficult day can come about in many ways (stuck in traffic, late for the office, losing a job, or receiving unwelcome news). One of the challenges of bad days is when one issue leads to another. For instance, getting stuck in traffic leads to late arrival at the office, and leads to being scolded by one’s boss. Sequential misfortunes often leave us with negative feelings and an awareness of how fragile we can be, and not in control of all situations. Bad days and negative actions can have a lasting negative impact if one cannot remain strong. We must seek to learn what we can from bad days, considering that bad days indicate something is amiss.
Bad days come along with lessons that define the person we become, even though we often feel a variety of negative feelings that may include hopelessness and distress. In the end we get to learn virtues such as patience and adoption of change. The approach we take during bad days defines our personal outcome, and the kind of memories gathered from a bad day. However, the coming days will be better than today.
Jeanne Clark, RN, MSN, NC-BC
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